Okay girlfriend and friends..Wait..Let me try friends and girlfriend..Nyeh..I know..BOTH!
Did you ever get hurt by your girlfriend?
I did..Its painful alright..But it can make your mentality to be strong(sometimes only though).
What about friends?Did you ever get hurt by any of your friends out there?
Countless I should say, maybe I hurt them too..Who knows anyway~so I minta maaf to any of my friends that I've hurt before who happens to read this post right now.
Among all, im really sensitive when it comes to a simple yet strong word - Trust.
I usually trust any friend of mine without having a second thought. Meaning if my trust ever get betrayed, Its difficult for me to regain my trust to that particular friend.
As a result, I would limit myself in having social interactions with that friend. I dont mean I would do that forever but it would definitely take some time before I fully regain my trust.
If I ever get hurt by a friend, its simple..I would back off for a while. I have many other friends to chat and hangout with..Otherwise If I just sit and keep on filling my body with negative energies, it would just make me no good. And If I get involved in a quarrel/fight over something with a friend, I would just quickly apologize and then back off..
Even I did a similar thing once to a close friend of mine. One day, he/she was in a bad mood and replied to my question in a somehow irritating way to me..The next day, I wouldnt talk to him/her till he/she said he's/she's Okay..Im really sorry =)
whats keeping a friendship intact(for me) is being honest, able to accept each other in terms of almost anything and trust each other.
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