Aizril's thought

I'm wondering how things in our lives can be affected by such small puny matter. Its like you're in a situation where tiny stuff is considered to be a wholly HUGE one and sometimes you wonder if there are any valid reasons for such "conversion" - In the end, you would realize that either you did something wrong or perhaps there's something wrong with the other side. After awhile, I started to be ignorant about it. What's concern me is just the sin i made to the person or people hoping that they would forgive me which is a a hard thing to do.

Sometimes life is just too painful to go through, still you must endure it only then you can learn new stuffs. Never regret cuz there's always "hikmah di sebaliknya". Its normal that the person whom we talked to said something that is unacceptable to us simply because its contradicting since there can be times that the stuffs one said to us are undeniably frustrating right to the edge of your emotions. For instance, a person complaining to you how bad you are to him/her as you dont understand his/her situation at times. Nevertheless, I sometimes wonder what if I say the same thing to him/her? Would I receive the same reply just like the reply i gave to that person? The answer is No. Its just hurtful when you know that you can actually something to protest against some of the sayings but what's the point anyway?

It would just make things complicated. Egoistic. Ego of not wanting to being submissive. I too face such unwanted trait. This is the time when your patience is tested and how far you can suppress your ego. Its just sad that friendship can be affected by such a small misunderstanding. Kalau couple di fahami lah ah ;p

anyways, I think if a friendship can worsen due to tiny unimportant stuff then personally i think, its not worth to put such friendship into your "cherishable friendships zone" as you would end up being upset in the end.

Its just how things work around here. You did something and the next thing you know its like you ruined a person's favourite Fiorelli handbag or console. What's contradictng is that when the same person did the same thing to us, he/she would just consider the act as not important - in other words, being ignorant. If so, what's the point of that person being so serious about such thing but when it comes to the moment when he/she did that to another person, its just a golly small thing?

I know there are times one might encounter such person. Perhaps im one of them, who knows I just need some guidance and petunjuk dari ilahi =) but be grateful that despite the fact that you have such a friend beside you, who knows there are times that he/she will do something that you consider anda bersenang hati with. We constantly making new friends in our journey of life. Being selective is a natural behaviour since nature too does natural selection of species.

this post is my opinion. Please dont take my words seriously. Just something to share with my readers =)