After doing some bloghopping and feeling jobless tonight, therefore i would like to blog some random stuffs. I do have some stuffs that i need to do but im just lazing around hence "jobless" is just nevertheless an excuse i made in order to just think I am kinda free ;)
Friendship as any other type of relationship is subjected to face certain problematic situations. As a result, this would inevitably makes the friendship either just to be more strengthened, neutral or in a worst case, broken off. The last one does not mean you dont socially interact with the person but rather not as often when the friendship was still free from any complications.
In life, there are things that you couldnt control no matter how much you want to. So friendship is one of those - its all about mutualism just like symbiotic algae. Like a husband-and-wife relationship, but this has some further issues in itself. And yes, I am not a perfect friend. I could be ego at times, whether I realise it or not. I had misunderstandings with some of my friends. Of course, it was not that pleasant. It was rather painful. It's not easy to make friends especially those that you feel somewhat fit into your so-called super friends or whatever you want to call it :)
Having said that, I often feel sad everytime I have misunderstandings with my friend and trying to fix it can be so difficult..no..usually difficult. Perhaps I'm lacking of the so-called social ability? I would prefer to just understand a geological concept or perhaps doing some sedimentary log on a locality than trying to figure out the solutions how to cure the friendship. If I could do magic, I should just point my finger and there you go, like nothing happened between me and my friends. But that means, indirectly one can say that I would rather not confront to the real problems and just keep running away from them? Let's just forget about it..lol
Right, but I feel that the misunderstandings could also lead to "hikmah" - you would realise some good stuffs out of them sooner or later, insya Allah :) Yes I do feel sad that my friendship with some would not be as they used to be but I am growing up to an adult now - there are things that I have to accept the fact that I have to let them go :) if things are meant to be back to normal, then Alhamdulillah..if they wont then just be cool about it and be optimistic about it! :)
No, please do not take this post as a mean for me to be sarcastic or any other form of social revenge plot. Its just the things that I have experienced nso far and who knows, you might as well in the near future. Its just one of the things that you have to face in duniawi life :)
And remember that, if you ever lose a friend, let say you guys had a misunderstanding and things wouldnt be the same again then just remind yourself that you might "lose" a friend but he/she will be replaced by more than "a friend" :) yes you wouldnt get a friend with the same personality but hey, everyone's unique and you never know the potential of your new friends to fit the niche in your "super friends" circle :)
Please never misunderstand this post my friend, if you happened to have a misunderstanding with me in the past. I still love you my friend for the sake of Allah. :) We're taking it easy..what's past is past. Let's pray for each other dispite the mistakes that we did to each other ;) (oh im feeling weird saying that sentence, it feels like im saying this to a girl especially to my ex-girlfriend/ex-girlfriends lol).
p/s: for the record, i'm not a playboy. I did mistakes to girls but now im determined not to be involved with any relationships with girls. No, im not becoming a gay. Im going for Taaruf instead :) Insya Allah
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