I decided to post something about "changes"
as far as we know, people do change at times especially when you're around teenager-ish period. During the process, your social circles may get affected - may it be in minor, moderate or major amount. In some cases, they do not change at all. I do have to admit i changed ever since im on my own in Liverpool and I believe my friends have changed too. The way I think, I do other things, they do experienced some amount of changes.
Im moved to think about how the changes affect my friendship with others..do they get tighten or loosen with some mates?
I dont know how to answer that question myself, all I can say for now is its better for me "to go with the flow" and not to think about it too much. Dont get me wrong though, i can be weird at times, its just tonight that I have "this" kind of wondering thingy X)
You may feel that at times you need certain friends in your circle to comfort you when you feel down or so and the next thing you know, they are not around, they just simply "disappear" and reappear again when you're happy and filled with joy. Is this what they call "di kala sedih seorang but di kala gembira beramai-ramai"???
sorry for diving deeper...bear with me for few minutes yea =)
In the end, one has to prepare for the worst --- there may be at times that your friendship with others are tested, you know how strong the bonds are...sometimes, you're happy to know they are super strong...nevertheless, feel disappointed when they are not strong as you expected they would be..
The next thing you would do is to accept reality, dont feel down, dont feel frustrated or anything negative..know that you're not alone in this "friends world"..friends go and friends come, you can find tons of friends out there although it can be tiring at times to get to know them more -.-
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